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Sandemans Free Walking Tour of Berlin-AMAZING!

Sandemans free walking tour in Berlin is the perfect introduction to the city for first time travelers or for anyone who wants to learn more about the history of the area.

Anyone who travels knows how expensive globetrotting around the world can be. Between flights, accommodations, food and excursions it’s easy to see your bank account dwindle down to nothing.  Traveling on a shoestring can be tough, but Sandemans makes jetsetting much more affordable. Even those on the tightest budget can swing this tour because it’s free!

Memorial to the Murdered Jews of Europe

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That’s right–a 2.5 hour Sandemans walking tour of the city with a professional, insightful guide won’t cost you anything but a tip. Since this was my first time in Berlin I wanted to see a much as possible. But I was a little nervous to get around on my own since I was by myself for the first few days of my vacation. So being part of this tour was great. I didn’t have to worry about where I was going. I just followed the guide for the Sandemans free tour around and I got to see the main highlights of the city. In addition, I learned so much about the history, which I didn’t know before.

Gendarmenmarkt

Duarte was my guide for the Sandemans free walking tour and he was really knowledgable about the city. He talked in-depth about historical events that took place in Berlin and was very friendly. He always made sure everyone in the group was together and was super easy to talk to.

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My one minor complaint about the Sandemans tour was that I didn’t feel like we had enough time to take photos. For instance, at the Berlin wall, we didn’t actually walk down to it. We stood nearby and listened to Duarte as he gave interesting details about it. But we didn’t get to see it up close. We weren’t given time to explore, however it did look like it was about to rain. So we rushed through a few things in order not to get caught in the bad weather. It is a free tour, I saw so much of Berlin and I loved the guide, so can I really complain? No!

Near the Berlin Wall and Checkpoint Charlie

Everything else was wonderful though and I enjoyed my time with Sandemans. I’d absolutely recommend doing the tour, which is easy to set up.  Go to the site and choose the city you want. Sandemans free tours are offered in 20 cities around the world, so make sure to select the right one for you. Sign up and then you will instantly receive an email with your ticket. Once you arrive at your meeting point, show it to your guide and you’re all set. At the end you tip your guide. I suggest at least 10 euros per person.

For more information go to http://www.neweuropetours.eu/


Potsdam Day Trip from Berlin–Sandemans Tour

Berlin is an incredible place where you can eat schnitzel, enjoy giant steins of beer, take in the local art scene and learn about the dark history, which shaped the look of the city today. While there’s a long list of things to do, it’s highly recommended to switch up the metropolis scenery for a day to stroll in the stunning gardens and parks in Potsdam.

Sanssouci Palace Gardens

The former Prussian royal city is about an hour away from Germany’s capital and the best way to experience it is by a guided tour. After taking a free walking tour with Sandemans, I signed up for their Potsdam tour, which was 15 euros plus a 10 euro tip. My tour started at 11:00am and we left promptly for the train station. You’ll need the all day ABC pass to get to Potsdam. You can use it for any means of public transportation and it’s less than 8 euros, so it’s a good deal. Your guide tells you how to buy your ticket if you don’t already have one and your group will take the train together, which is about a 40 minute ride. From there you’ll take a bus for about 10 minutes and you use the same ticket.

Heather Newgen with Sandemans’ tour guide Duarte

Duarte was my guide for both of the tours I took with Sandemans, and he was great! He’s very attentive to everyone on the tour, made sure we all got on the train okay and had seats. He directed us to Potsdam every step of the way, and those who were older in the group or were nervous to use public transportation were well taken care of.  Our first stop on the tour was where the Oscar-nominated movie “Bridge of Spies” was filmed. The iconic location is just outside of Potsdam and Duarte told us interesting details about the area and Cold War era before we wandered towards the Old Dutch Quarter.

As we marveled at the red-bricked Dutch architecture and colorful streets, Duarte, who is incredibly knowledgable about historical events, talked about the significance of Potsdam and gave us time to walk around the fairy-tale buildings.

 

Since it was raining in Potsdam we didn’t get to see a few things that we would normally on the tour. But we did make it to the Cecilienhof Palace. This is where Allied leaders Harry Truman, Joseph Stalin, and Winston Churchill gathered for the Potsdam Conference in 1945. We also saw the magnificent gardens and the Sanssouci Palace, which was the summer residence for Frederick the Great, King of Prussia.

 

Sanssouci Palace

We didn’t go inside any of the palaces since that’s an additional entrance fee, which isn’t included. However, the tour ends around 3:00pm so you’re free to explore anything else in Potsdam you’d like. If you want to head back to Berlin, the guide gives directions to where you’re going and helps you navigate the bus and train.

I thought it was a great tour to Potsdam and would encourage anyone to go. I was bummed the weather wasn’t better. But considering I still feel like we saw a lot of things, and I was happy I went.


Berlin: An Inside Look at the Local Scene

Known for its eclectic mix of new and classic architecture, dark history and significant cultural landmarks, Berlin has become one of the hottest destinations in Europe to visit. The German capitol is an interesting blend of contradictions–glamour and grittiness, old and modern, laidback and wild. There’s a lot to learn about the city besides the historical aspect. There’s also a lot to experience like the buzzing nightlife and delicious dining. And the best way to take in Berlin and its diverse local scene is by a private tour, but not just any private tour, you need Henrik Tidefjärd.

Currywurst

Mural of Actress Marlene Dietrich outside of Konnopke’s Imbiss

Starting at $400.00 for an afternoon excursion, his tours aren’t cheap, but you’re guaranteed a good time. Tidefjärd, who is the founder of Berlinagenten, a luxury lifestyle tour company, is all about creating unique experiences for travelers. He introduces his mostly high-end cliental to trendy, chic places, amazing food and lively nightlife–and yes he goes out clubbing with you! Although he’s a licensed and professional guide, he’s more like the most convivial travel partner you’ll ever have.

He also takes his unforgettable tours a step further and caters to people who are looking for inspiration because they’ve already seen and done everything. Storytelling travel and concept VIP is the trend right now for high rollers who’ve traveled extensively and are in search of a new thrill.

“You create an experience almost like a theatre. So if you take a cruise or private boat then they will set up maybe like a mermaid on the rocks and then she disappears into the ocean. There’s no limit on price. It’s all about experience,” he said.

So what would a storytelling experience look like for Berlin?

“We have an edgy, sexy, underground, creative scene. You could step in behind closed doors and meet the founders of creative companies, go to a special bar, clubs and restaurants. Everything that Berlin is about and its creative scene, you would feel it and touch it and meet,” he continued.

Tidefjärd moved to Berlin in 2001 and quickly learned there wasn’t many “cool trendy restaurants” at that time. So he scouted out the places he’d want to go and “put together a tour to offer travelers who are keen on the food scene. But not traditional restaurants, more hip. Berlin doesn’t represent Germany because it’s much more multi-cultural,” he said. “This is more like New York or London. If you go to Munich there you will find the authentic German food, here’s it’s really international,” Tidefjärd said.

Night Kitchen
Photo Courtesy of Night Kitchen/Berlinagenten

Over the last couple of decades the city has experienced a culinary explosion of immigrant and classic cuisines, as well as an impressive array of fine dining, adding to Berlin’s increased popularity.

“We have the biggest Turkish community in the world outside of Turkey. They are important to Berlin. They have restaurants open 24 hours, they import fresh fruits and vegetables. They’re very hard working people. They put the spice in city. We also have a big Vietnamese population because during the Cold War there was an exchange between Communist countries. In East Germany, they got Vietnamese workers to work in the factories and they stayed here. We have so many good Vietnamese restaurants,” Tidefjärd told The Voluntourist.

Blend
Photo Courtesy of Blend/Berlinagenten

But eating good relatively inexpensive food isn’t the only exciting thing about Berlin.

“When it comes to sex, drugs and rock n’ roll, people should make their own decisions on what to do and when we do it. That’s why there’s no closing restrictions on bars and club,” Tidefjärd said. And on our tour of Mitte, one of Berlin’s coolest neighborhoods, he explained how locals like to party.

Dead Chicken Alley

“A typical bar scene looks like someone pulled in furniture from the street or the garbage. We like the concrete and rough style because that means we can’t destroy anything when we’re having a good time. If you walk into a fancy place where they have a fancy chandelier and it’s super nice, you’re afraid to dance because you don’t want to destroy anything. In Berlin we go pretty wild and want to feel relaxed. So we love vintage furniture because it’s already used. And we like concrete because that means it’s very stable to dance on,” Tidefjärd laughed.

Inside Cosmic Kaspar–a popular local bar in Mitte, Berlin

Another amazing fact about Berlin is how welcoming locals are.

“Berlin is a city of contrast. When it comes to people, Berlin is a healthy city with acceptance and tolerance of others. In one courtyard you have part of a building, which is more like a community, bohemians, anti-capitalists, anti-fascists. Then next door you have Coco Chanel people, very wealthy, hipster people who have moved in,” Tidefjärd told us.

“Many other cities around the world you have the rich people in the centers and their own communities, so they never get the chance to meet those alternative people and vice versa. So in Berlin we have a high acceptance and understanding of subcultures because they live next door. That makes us very healthy and not divided or segregated. That’s why Berlin is such a special city where we love each other and we live in peace,” he added.

Squatter House in Berlin

The outside of a squatter house in Berlin

Tidefjärd and his team of 40 guides entertain intrepid travelers, large groups, corporations, celebrities and thrill seekers who are into vibrant culture, cutting-edge architecture, shopping, art, lifestyle, fabulous food and parties.

Here’s just a taste of what you could be doing on a Berlinagenten tour.

“In the summertime you have to check out the beach clubs. We don’t need to go to Ibiza. We have the best summer parties. The two you must go to are Haubentaucher and this floating swimming pool in the river called Badeschiff,” Tidefjärd said.

“Another cool thing to do is the historical airport Tempelhof. It’s the former American airport during the Cold War. It’s a public park today so you can go ziplining, parachuting, picnicking, grilling, whatever. You have fun on the runway. It’s a very cool place. There are so many different ways to discover Berlin, but the waterways is the highlight because you see places that you wouldn’t from the street. You will be surprised about the hidden gems around the river. It’s beautiful and fun,” he added.

If you are looking to just hit up Berlin’s typical touristy attractions, Tidefjärd isn’t for you, but he does have some advice.

“Don’t do the beer bikes. It’s so touristic. You just go around on a stupid bike with 10 people with a barrel of beer and a Berliner will spit on you and throw a bottle of beer at you because we hate it.”

For more information on Berlinagenten and the custom tours Henrik Tidefjärd offers please visit https://www.berlinagenten.com/#/tourshop

Also check out Gil Travel Group if doing a fun multi-city vacation of Eastern Europe is more your thing. I’m all about tours when I travel and while I haven’t tried Gil Travel Group yet, they look awesome and I hope to soon.


Poznań, Poland is the Perfect Day Trip from Berlin

Poznań is one of the largest and oldest cities in Poland, and surprisingly still under the radar with travelers. However, after experiencing its beauty and uniqueness, there’s no doubt tourists will soon be overrunning it. So go now!

Located between Berlin and Warsaw, Poznań is known for its Renaissance style buildings and remarkable charm. The city has a 1000-year-old history and played a significant religious and political role during the 10th century. As you wander through the vibrant cobblestone streets, the European city has an exciting antiquated feeling that’s vividly present. Poznań is distinctive in the sense that tradition and history are interwoven with modernity offering interesting attractions and idyllic hideaways.

One of the most popular places to see is the Old Market Square. There you’ll find cafes, bars and shops buzzing with the friendly locals. Make sure to be there at noon and mull around the Town Hall. Every day at that time the clock strikes and two mechanical billy goats come out butting heads 12 times–a tradition since 1551. Legend has it a celebratory elaborate feast was prepared for the town’s esteemed guests. However, the chef burnt the roast to a crisp, which was the main dish. In a desperate move to save the festive occasion, he stole two billy goats from a nearby meadow, but that didn’t work out so well for him either.

They escaped and were found butting heads in front of the Town Hall. The mayor was rather amused by the incident and ordered two billy goats be added to the clock. They’ve been battling it out center stage ever since. You could easily spend an entire day at the Old Market Square, but if you have limited time, make sure to explore the other must see places in Poznań. The Fara Church is around the corner from the square and is strikingly breathtaking. You could also spend countless hours admiring the baroque gold decor, ornate high ceilings and detailed statues. The 1600s pink facade Catholic church does have guided tours, so if you some time you can schedule one.

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Other Places to See in Poznań

–Old Brewery 50 50

–Cathedral Island

–Citadel Park

–Imperial Castle

–Poznań National Museum where you can see Claude Monet – “La plage à Pourville, soleil couchant” (“Beach in Pourville”). It was stolen in 2000, but recovered and returned to the museum in 2010.

Poznań is easily accessible by bus, plane or train, which is what I took from Berlin. It was about $90 each way and was six hours roundtrip, but so worth the price and long day. The city can be seen in a day, but if you can stay overnight, you can enjoy the nightlife, which is something I didn’t have time for.

Keep in mind you can’t use Euros so make sure to bring a credit card or exchange money.  In my experience not as many locals spoke English as they did in Berlin. However, it’s still easy to communicate with people. Also you don’t need your passport to enter from Berlin by train. But there were random passport checks on the train by German authorities so have it with you just in case.

You should absolutely add Poznań to your list of must see places. The city contains an impressive amount of history to soak up and learn about. But, even if that’s not your thing, the architecture, food and lively atmosphere is reason enough to go.


How Start with One Kenya is Fighting the Clean Water Crisis

Lack of clean water in Kenya is an ongoing crisis that’s affecting a large percentage of the population. See how one man and his organization Start with One Kenya is helping.

Disease-free drinking water should be a basic right for anyone, but for millions in Kenya that isn’t the case. According to the Water.org website, “With a population of 46 million, 41 percent of Kenyans still rely on unimproved water sources, such as ponds, shallow wells and rivers, while 59 percent of Kenyans use unimproved sanitation solutions. These challenges are especially evident in the rural areas and the urban slums. Only 9 out of 55 public water service providers in Kenya provide continuous water supply, leaving people to find their own ways of searching for appropriate solutions to these basic needs.”

Bill Coble, a youth pastor from North Carolina, moved to Kenya to help. He started the nonprofit Start with One Kenya and has dedicated his life to helping the country.

“Every year more than 2 million people, mostly children, die from waterborne disease. Fifty percent of all the illness in the world is caused by unsafe water. Globally, unsafe water kills more people every year than violence, including war. Children are the worst affected because they don’t have the resilience to fight water borne illness. As if the numbers on death and disease weren’t sufficiently compelling, many people in developed nations are shocked when they begin to comprehend the vast number of people in the world who have no access to any water at all. Clean water is at the root of many challenges that face most of the world,” Coble said.

Bill and his Start with One Kenya team, which includes his wife Kim (Chat) Coble, whom he met in Kenya, distribute water filters in communities that don’t have access to clean water. I met up with him in Nakuru and watched the inspiring way he’s making clean water available to others.

Produced by: Heather Newgen

Videographer/Editor: Carolyn Eastman


Beware Frontier is “Highly Corrupt, Dishonest and Littered with False Advertising”

I’m writing this review of Frontier to help others learn from my mistakes. While I can’t speak for every project, you should know this company is highly corrupt, dishonest and littered with false advertising.

By Alex Ushkin

I was looking for something that combined adventure travel with volunteering, which was a main reason I went with Frontier. However, from my experience they cannot do either adequately. So my advice would be to travel with a reliable company and find a separate avenue for volunteering. I signed up for a 30 week program with Frontier. My time was supposed to include 10 weeks in Southeast Asia, 10 weeks in Fiji and another 10 weeks in Central America, which turned out to be much less. The entire 30 weeks cost around $13,000 plus additional $1,700 for open water and advanced diver certifications for the Fiji marine volunteer project.

Frontier was so disappointing, a total scam and not worth the money. Let me be your lesson on this. Avoid Frontier at all costs. I made the terrible decision to go with Frontier so hopefully I can at least pass on some knowledge to prevent others from being swindled. I truly believe they are a fraudulent company.

Frontier

SOUTHEAST ASIA TRAIL (October to December 2017)

If you’re traveling on your own for 10 weeks in Southeast Asia and spend $4,400, you’re probably only going to spend that much if you stay in nice hotels, eat out a lot or do expensive activities. But I spent about that amount with Frontier and I’m not sure why. We stayed in budget accommodations and there was nothing extravagant about the trip. I’m fine with hostels and cheaper restaurants, but 10 weeks in Southeast Asia should not cost $4,400 if you are traveling on a budget, which is what we did. What you get is a whole lot less than what is promised and falsely advertised. I’ve been to many hostels good and bad. The ones Frontier has volunteers stay in are largely in the not good category–though I admit some were fine or good. I paid the program fee in advance, but when you arrive you’re put on a budget, which was $10.00 a night. Even at 10 weeks that’s $10/night x 70 nights =$700, so I don’t know where the overpriced program fee I paid was going. In addition, their website claims meals are provided. When I arrived I  found out some meals weren’t included and no drinking water was available to us. That was a separate cost. The budget for us was roughly $3.00 a day minus weekends so $3.00/day x 5days/week x 10 weeks)= $150. Also the guide wouldn’t pay for your meal if you got “western” food. This was not a real rule but one imposed by this guide.

VOLUNTEERING IN CAMBODIA

My volunteer experience in Cambodia was teaching English at a free local school for children that couldn’t afford English classes. The name of the school was Smiling Hearts in Siem Reap. I enjoyed my time with the actual school and children and thought they were doing good work–I ended up creating a fundraiser to donate to them directly.

Frontier

The relationship with Frontier was already frayed when we got there due to the lack of financial support. Frontier’s only support was the volunteers that come through every few months. The school has since cuts ties with Frontier. Most of the Frontier volunteers were actually asked not to come anymore after a few weeks because a group that actually contributed was coming in. However, my partner and I continued because we had a good bond with our students. I would say overall I had a good interaction with the school and local community.

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That said, Frontier’s investment in the project was $0! It was extremely awkward on the first day of meeting the school administrator when she told us this. Many in the group immediately wrote emails to Frontier demanding an explanation. They use ambiguous and completely non transparent business practices. Basically they state that they never promise to spend the money on your project, but they can choose to spend on anything like “administration costs” and lawyer fees. If you actually want your money to support the cause you volunteer with, stay away from Frontier.

EXCURSIONS

According to the Frontier website several activities were included, but the guide denied this. Eventually the group persisted and indeed the guide was forced to give us a refund for certain activities. Other things the guide made up… Can’t jump in waterfall because too dangerous (as 10 year boys were jumping), limiting alcohol… She made up random rules like two drinks per evening, no more than two times a week. This was also protested and guide was told that’s not a rule. Curfews… Couldn’t go out after 6pm without signing out or having a buddy. I’m 30 years old, and was treated like a child. Not to mention this guide could not speak any local language, had no experience leading group travel and had only lightly traveled that region before so her usefulness was thus minimal.

I can’t remember all the travel fees but it’s safe to say they weren’t in the $3,000 range, probably like $500. So you’re getting possibly the value of $,1500 but getting charged over $4,000, with none of that money going to support your project. That is straight awful. A couple folks dropped out (one for medical issue, another due to complete disappoint with Frontier), most on the trip agreed it was a terrible value and would never use Frontier again but nothing we can do about it. Several sued or tried but it’s prohibitively expensive trying to go against on your own (remember all those lawyer fees??) so I don’t think anything came about. That being said I did get to meet some cool people and see some cool places. My advice… SEA is pretty well traveled so it’s simple to go it alone as you’ll meet plenty of people at hostels. Or travel with a reputable and reliable company (definitely not Frontier) for a short time until comfortable to go alone or meet some friends and travel. Or find a local NGO to work with and know your cause is actually getting your money. There was a girl at the school that just did this and volunteered for free, even got free room to stay for teaching meanwhile we shuffled thousands of dollars to a corrupt company instead of a well deserving school for impoverished children.

FIJI (January to March 2018)

So another 10 weeks here, $4,400 paid plus an additional $1,700 for courses. The situation here was different than SEA, which was more travel based. While Fiji was a more permanent camp, not really any travel included. The living conditions were pretty bad here. It was quite remote and self sustained living a lot ,which personally I do enjoy. However, if you’re paying a lot of money and get a dump you’d be upset, rightfully so, this is kinda like that. Obviously I didn’t expect a luxury hotel, but the water would constantly break and the camp was falling apart. Barely a workable shower when I got there. The solar panel was broken so nearly zero electricity. We had one light in the camp that worked. Everything else was personally brought by volunteers /staff such as mini solar lights and panels for charging phones /cameras etc. Obviously no WiFi (again knew that and didn’t really care) though can occasionally get signal on local sim card.

Frontier

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The kitchen and all equipment was in pretty rough shape. The living conditions in general were disagreeable. Beds were a one inch foam mattress, my back was agony the whole time and extremely difficult to get anything resembling good rest on. The food was cooked by staff and volunteers on camp, typically. The food that came out was surprisingly good most of the time but that’s because I suppose we had some good cooks. Meals were typically rice, canned beans and vegetables. Once a week we’d get fresh fruit, vegetables, bread, eggs but that would always run out quick before next supply.

FIJI DIVING

As far as the diving goes Fiji has superb diving BUT getting certified was a nightmare. Ideally open water and advanced can be finished in a week. Sure there were lots of additional challenges when living on a remote island so they even say maybe two or three weeks. It took me eight weeks! You’re basically paying for the diving here since as we discussed you’re not getting much value from the lodging or meals. So to be low balled on diving was a major issue. Essentially I got 11 dives outside the training dives, which could be seen as the most expensive dives in the world compared to how much the project cost.

Frontier

There were many issues, some directly Frontier’s fault, some indirectly, only one reason was neither (evacuated for hurricane, which at this point shouldn’t be surprising to hear that we were forced out of camp and off the island to the mainland at our own expense and actually charged by Frontier for using their mainland lodging! That is some reprehensible behavior!). FYI the other reasons were Frontier failing to pay for their dive insurance, constant boat and air compressor failures, dive instructor getting sick and requiring surgery on the mainland (I say this is indirectly Frontier’s responsibility because they should have had a backup plan rather than delaying training for another week). All that said the staff in general here were better, more experienced, and they were quite a few of them. Also the people I met here were mostly cool. Again I enjoyed Fiji and locals and most of the other volunteers but again it is not even close to being worth going with Frontier. Fiji is very easy to travel solo or find an NGO that won’t rip you off.

CENTRAL AMERICA (January to March 2019)

This was more travel based like SEA trail, but again was a disaster. It was so bad it was fraudulently canceled by Frontier after we refused to pay extra for transportation that was stated to be provided and then calling out all their lies on the matter.  They refused to provide any refund at all. If you thought the other trips above were bad, this time I had enough.

I arrived in Mexico on day one, our guide (again someone with limited knowledge /experience but could at least speak Spanish), states Frontier won’t let us go through Nicaragua due to potential conflict. Okay we were never given any indication of this issue even though it was clearly known (they pulled this same stunt the previous year) and states in their terms and conditions that they are required to notify us of any major changes and we can choose to agree with those changes or receive refund. This never happened. The guide said Frontier will provide transport from Honduras to Costa Rica to avoid Nicaragua (via flight). Volunteers say okay, not ideal but we were already there and couldn’t do anything about it.

A week before this flight this guide says actually what he meant that first day was that we have to pay the flights completely out of pocket–about $400 at this point. Volunteers pushed back and told him that’s not what you said. Frontier and guide both lied about the origins of this “no going through Nicaragua rule” as a “force major clause, claimed they told us before which is most certainly false. We were told an email was sent to us informing us of this, but what wasn’t the case. They said, “that email was sent the week we were moving servers and it doesn’t show up now.” Well that’s not how email works and that they have the right to cancel without refunds because of this imminent danger situation that they basically invented.

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It’s almost hard to argue the stupidity that comes out of the Frontier office as the danger has been known about for over a year, they are required to notify us and give us options, well yeah none of that happened. They canceled around the four week mark effectively scamming us out of over six weeks of the trip. Also this guide frequently lied to us, failed miserably to communicate what we were saying since they wouldn’t answer our direct emails, and kept saying “oh well I’m not English native speaker so maybe you didn’t understand me” which he used as a cover for the lies. He also had no experience leading group travel and was quite terrible at it in all regards. He also made frequent creepy and unwanted advances towards one of the other volunteers to the point she wouldn’t feel safe near him or if alone with him. He also made frequent “jokes” in very poor taste (jokes about things like teen prostitution, indicating he might have taken part on other trips he’s done).

It was embarrassing, creepy and offensive, even to me, and I’m not one to get offended easily. I was looking up legal documents and talking to lawyers while on this trip to find out if they are acting illegally. Could you imagine doing that when you’re supposed to be traveling and exploring the world? In the end, the fight of one versus an international corporation based in another country was too much for me but I really hope they are exposed and taken down, it won’t be soon enough. In the meantime I hope to warn as many people as possible of this company.

All in all, I cannot overstate how bad Frontier is, and I don’t think I’m exaggerating at all. I have dealt with them over the course of two years, actively spending about 24 weeks with Frontier. Please learn from me and never book with Frontier. They are dishonest and misleading. Be careful because they spend a lot of money on advertising and if you want to take the chance like I did then good luck, but you’ll likely regret it.


“Dirty John” Real Life Survivor Terra Newell Reveals 6 Red Flags to Look Out for in Relationships

Terra Newell killed her mom’s husband in self-defense, stabbing him 13 times, while her dog Cash bit his ankles trying to protect her. She’s now giving back to other domestic abuse victims by sharing insightful advice that helped save her life and working with organizations that support people trying to escape abusive relationships.

By: Heather Newgen | Twitter: @hnvoluntourist

When she was 25-years-old Terra Newell was forced to fight for her life when John Meehan, her mom’s con artist of a husband, viciously attacked her in an Orange County, Calif parking lot. The knife-wielding assault happened August 20, 2016, and Terra knew from the moment she met him that something was off with her mom’s new man.

“John didn’t want to look me in the eyes. He didn’t want to engage in conservation with me. I wasn’t beneficial to him so he needed to get rid of me,” she revealed.

Although she loudly voiced her concerns, her mom didn’t see the issues and within two months they were living together. The pair, who met on Our Time, a dating site for singles over 50, secretly eloped and Meehan totally controlled Terra’s mom. They were together in total for two years, but Terra only met him twice.

“He isolated me from the beginning. I went to help my mom move and I didn’t know he was moving in with her. I then came back for Thanksgiving the following week and had a confrontation with John. I was kicked out of the house and not allowed to come for Thanksgiving Day. He accused me of snooping through stuff and that I didn’t want my mom happy and that I wanted her money. I may have thrown a few F words at him,” she said.

While she didn’t see Meehan much, she did still spend some time with her mom, Debra Newell, a Southern California wealthy interior designer.

“I did see my mom here and there, but he was always texting her and having time limits on how long she was able to see us. She would be texting him the whole time instead of us enjoying a nice lunch together. She would always say, ‘oh, but he’s such a good guy. I want you guys to get along.’ I would say back to her, ‘okay mom we should get together with him. I’ll talk it out with him, and then he would never wanted to do that.’

After hiring a private detective the Newell family began discovering horrifying truths about Meehan. He claimed he was an anaesthesiologist who volunteered for a year in Iraq with Doctors Without Borders. Not true. Turns out he never went to medical school. He also had a rap sheet. Meehan served time in California and Michigan for stealing narcotics from hospitals where he worked as a nurse. In addition, the investigation revealed he swindled and terrorized several other women he’d met online.

Terra Newell’s unbelievable story has been told in a viral true-crime podcast and Bravo series “Dirty John” starring Connie Britton, Eric Bana, Julia Garner and Juno Tempo, and now she’s doing what she can to help others.

“I’m doing speaking tours, doing a lot of writing on my blog about PTSD, talking about red flags in relationships and also talking about how you can defend yourself in an attack like I did. There’s just so many woman that can relate to this story. As a kid you’re not taught to look out for red flags in relationships. You’re kind of taught to look at your parents’ relationship and learn by watching that. So it’s really important to teach women to do to notice red flags. John did isolate her from us and used things like coercive control and love bombing to target her and get her alone,” she told The Voluntourist.

“It’s important to speak about these things and get the message across to help people,” she said as she listed out the major red flags to be on the lookout for in relationships.

1. Not having eye contact. Not having eye contact shows they don’t want to engage and they don’t have the social skills that normal people have.

2. Isolation. If they try to isolate anyone who isn’t beneficial to their agenda. They will try to get rid of anyone who has doubts about the relationship.

3. My dogs didn’t want to engage with John. Animals can sense things that people can’t. So that was another sign for me.

4. Watch our for comments about violence and hurting people. When you hear remarks like that you have to analyze them because they show a lack of empathy. John said to my mom one time–she didn’t take it seriously because she thought it was a joke, but he said he would shoot my sister with a sniper and he wasn’t joking. My sister was giving my mom a hard time about him, which prompted him to lash out in a violent way.

5. Love bombing is like that new fresh relationship and how you’re so happy to be in it. But the guy is consistently always there. He’s doing whatever he can to woo you, but he’s not giving you a break and letting you have time to think, ‘Oh is this person really a good person.’ He’s always there and always giving you love. He’s smothering and never gives space, but does it in a way where you don’t feel that way and like you want to get rid of this person. You just feel like you’re getting loved, but it’s a calculated move to isolate you so he has full control to take advantage of you.

6. Coercive control is a tactic that a lot of con artists and psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissist use. They use a lot of manipulation like twisting around your words. If you get mad at them for something, they turn it around on you. They also isolate you from family and friends. They use anything negative you’ve said about them and use it to their advantage. For example, if you’ve said, “Oh my family doesn’t leave me alone.” They’ll be like, “You’re family can’t ever give you space. Is this how you want to live your life.”

She’s also got tips for online dating.

“It’s a place where predators have easy access to women. If you’re going to do it, you should be very careful,” she told us.

“Always meet the person in public for the first three to five dates and for the first month or two don’t let them into your house. Don’t go on three dates in a week. That’s a little too excessive. Create time limits. Go on a date once a week. Create boundaries,” she added.

It’s been almost three years since the attack and Terra Newell is now in therapy once a week to manage her PTSD, gives back as often as she can to others experiencing domestic abuse and enjoys spending time with her family who she says “are closer than ever.”

To read more about Terra check out her blog. https://terranewell.com/


PERU

COUNTRY INFORMATION

Peru is located in Western South America. The nation’s diversity and wealth are unlike many other countries in the world. Peru also has a rich cultural history which dates back to several Andean civilizations such as the Incan Empire.

Within the last few decades, Peru has experienced some political and economic unrest as well as a violent insurrection. However, the country has been able to solve some internal issues and overcome other obstacles.

If you’ve volunteered in Peru, we’d love to hear about your experience. Please let us know which organization you signed up with, what your trip was like, and if you’d recommend the program to others.


NEPAL

COUNTRY INFORMATION

Located in South Asia, Nepal sits along the southern Himalayan mountain ranges. It is a landlocked country located between two major powers: India and China. As a result, Nepal has tried to remain largely neutral and isolated throughout its history.

After years of monarchical rule and a violent insurgency, the country transitioned to a democratic republic in 2008. Despite some political changes, Nepal is one of the world’s least developed nations. However, the country has received economic assistance from various countries, such as the U.S., throughout the years.

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THAILAND

COUNTRY INFORMATION

Located in the tropics of Southeast Asia, Thailand has an extremely diverse landscape. Historically, Thailand has been characterized as an agricultural society, but large numbers of people began relocating to the capital and other large cities during the 1960s.

Thailand is the only country in Southeast Asia to never have been colonized by Europeans. However, Thailand has experienced years of political and military havoc as well as violence conducted by ethnonationalists in the country.

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